Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Calendar-based Resolve

Gentry Yeatman

I hate New Years’ resolutions.  I don’t remember making one in my entire life. And if I did, I probably did not keep it. Why?  I am not resolute, I lack resolve.

The word resolution is rich with complex meaning.  The resolution of a microscope or telescope allows one to clearly see the most minute or distant detail.  Resolution of a computer screen relates to clarity of vision, as well--focus. The resolution of an argument halts open antagonism and possibly prevents injury.   Resolution of grudges can promote closure. Resolution of disease symptoms restores health.  Resolution in music theory relates to a move from an unstable dissonant sound to a more stable consonant sound.  
Detail, focus, health, consonance.


The essence of resolution implies having a clear perspective of an attainable, absolute, resolute move toward harmony of initiative and willpower, or at least the appearance thereof.

For New Year’s we should probably substitute the word, plan.  What is your New Years’ plan?  What do you see clearly?  Has introspection occurred? Has a friend or family member helped provide objectivity.

By nature, most plans are self-centered, although not necessarily negative in nature.

“I plan to lose weight.”  
“I will stop smoking, again, this time for good.”  
“I want a better job.”  
“I will resume my education.”
“I think I’ll read more.”

But we can and should be resolute to “harmonize” for others--altruism.

“I will try to be a better neighbor.”
“I may take my kids to church.”
“I am going to volunteer at the food bank.”
“I should contribute more to a local charity.”

Okay, if I must have a New Year’s resolution it is to avoid the word.  I plan to do that!